A trending topic before it even dropped, it’s safe to say that this video was highly anticipated. Lyfe Jennings’ latest tune about women and the many, many obstacles they face dating definitely has his fans listening. The accompanying visuals only provide more testimony to the fact that yes, it’s hard out there for a woman to find a good man. The only problem is he’s not actually making us women feel too good about our chances. Basically, we’re fucked. We can appreciate Lyfe trying to look out for us though and the testimonials in the beginning sound like so many stories we’ve heard so many times. If only all the self-help books come in musical form.